PARTY OF FIVE~

Flowers From a Boy~

2009-08-18T09:09:00.002-04:00

I have gotten flowers on three separate occasions this week. And with those flowers came a kiss.

My sweet, loving 4-year-old boy has been picking dandelions for me every morning. There really is nothing better. The look on his face when he says "Momma, I have something for you," then hands me the smashed dandelions. My little guy, who is turning into a big guy more and more each day. He makes me crave another child, but I know that's not going to happen. My family is complete. Sometimes it's just hard watching them grow.

Sometime Around Midnight

2009-08-10T11:42:00.003-04:00

Up close and personal w/ Mikel from TATE

Last week I decided to pull myself off of the couch and go downtown with the girls to see a show at HOB. The Airborne Toxic Event (TATE) was headlining. I wasn't too familiar with the band. I only knew the song that is overplayed on 92.3, "Sometime Around Midnight."

Arrived at HOB and all I can say is WOW. Airborne was amazing. Their music is so raw, so honest. I couldn't get enough of it.

After the show we went for Margarita's at Zocalo. While we were sitting on the patio getting sloppy, we see Mikel and Steven from the band, walking down fourth street. We invited them over to join us for drinks. Learned from Mikel that "Sometime Around Midnight" is about a girl from Cleveland who broke Mikel's heart. Cleveland rocks, yo!

Next, we ventured over to Flannery's and met up with the rest of the band. Beers, beers and more beers. I think there were some shots thrown in there also. Kind of a blur, but here are a few pictures from the night.

Love the drummer's crazy mustache. He was a trip. If you aren't familiar with TATE, I highly recommend getting some of their music.

Love, Hate Facebook~

2009-06-24T17:04:00.002-04:00

Oh Facebook. I love you. I hate you.

Yeah, it's cool to reconnect with old friends and family. And I LOVE looking at pictures and spying on other peoples lives. I've been known to play a game or two of Lexulous and I tend daily to my little green patch.

But here's what I don't like...

I already ruined a couple of surprise parties. I've unknowingly caused a few fights. I see people out who I wouldn't normally talk to but now I feel like I have to b/c we are FB friends. I spend time on it when I should be doing other stuff. You see where I'm going.

But I have a very addictive personality and I've become addicted to Facebook. I even Twitter. Hell, I LOVE Twitter more than anything right now.

But I often wonder if my life would be different without all this social media stuff. Would I be in better shape b/c I would work out more? Would my house be cleaner? Would my kids be smarter? Would my dog be trained?

I'm not stopping any time soon, that would cause too much shock to my system. But I may slow down, just a tad.

Introducing Green Smash & Peach~

2009-06-16T10:56:00.003-04:00

Monday night we took the kids to the pet store so they could each pick a fish. I figure it's an easy enough pet to take care of. The biggest obstacle will be keeping the dog from eating the fish. I think I can do that.

Today Grace and Denny woke Bob and I up at 6am saying "the fish are hungry, the fish are hungry." Beta's only eat every 3 days, and we fed them last night. I had to hide the food otherwise these fish won't make it past the weekend.

Denny named his fish Green Smash. The fish is not green, but it's Denny's favorite color and Smash Brothers in his favorite wii game, so he put it together and came up with Green Smash.

Grace named her fish Sleeping Beauty, then switched to Flower then to Magical. She finally settled on Peach.

I give it three more days until the novelty of it all wears off, but until then I will enjoy the sweet excitement that these little fish have brought to us.

A Blog About My Brother~

2009-06-08T17:18:00.010-04:00

Me & my bro, June 1981

Me and my brother have always been pretty tight. Even though he is 7.5 years older (haha), I'm mature and he's not, so it's always been like we were closer in age.

When I was away at college, my Dad used to pay my brother money to come and stay with me for a weekend. You know, to "keep an eye on me". Who the hell was supposed to keep an eye on my brother, I have no idea. But seriously, my Dad would give my brother cold, hard cash to spend a weekend at Ohio State with me and my five hot roomies. Sucks to be him I know.

When we were growing up, my bro was so overprotective of me. Sometimes it worked in my favor and sometimes it didn't. If a guy wanted to date me, he'd have to go through my brother first. If a guy ever broke my heart, my brother would break their bones.

Now don't get me wrong, my relationship with my brother hasn't always been full of sunshine and flowers. We've had fights like all siblings do. And he's beat the crap out of me a few times while growing up. But it's all good because he helped me become the tough chick that I am today.

Anyway, the point of this post is that his old ass turned 40 over the weekend. It's hard to believe he's "officially" over the hill. The good news is that he doesn't look a day over 38 and doesn't act a day over 25, so truly age is just a number. Happy birthday brother :)

Me and my bro, June 2009

Why I'm Not a Morning Person~

2009-06-02T21:31:00.010-04:00

When I became pregnant with Grace, I told Bob all I need is a big ass bed. So we bought a King size, pillow top, comfy bed.

When we fall asleep at night, we enjoy the silence and the space. It's nice but like anything else, it doesn't last for long.

Around 1 or 2a.m., I feel the first jab to my ribs. Usually I move a bit and fall right back to sleep. Another hour passes and I feel something tugging at my feet as the covers slowly and deliberately leave my body.

I look and see that Bob is on the floor while each child lays comfortably in the middle of the bed. I am hanging on by one leg until the dog climbs up and I join Bob on the floor. They all snore loudly and proudly, while the King and Queen of the home get little rest.

This my friends, is why I am not a morning person.

Back to Reality~

2009-05-11T14:17:00.006-04:00

We made it home from vacation in one piece. We spent 3 days in Daytona, 3 days at Disney, and then another 3 back in Daytona. Did I mention we drove? 15 hours in a car sucks no matter what, but add in a 4 and 5-year-old and who knows what will happen. But amazingly, the kids were great.

Disney was a blast. Denny met the Power Rangers and Grace met the Princesses. So it is true that dreams really do come true at Disney.

Daytona was great too. We stayed with Bob's dad who has a beautiful home with a beautiful pool. We spent our days swimming in the pool and at the beach, and the nights we played cards and drank lots of beer.

Now that we are back home and I have my Mac back, I will try to get back to blogging more regularly.

Here's some pics from the trip. I'll put a lot more on my FB page.

Spring Break~

2009-04-17T16:01:00.009-04:00

We made it through Spring Break week and I think we wore the kiddos out. The past day and a half, all my son wants to do is sleep. Here is a picture of him from Friday, where he spent majority of the day in bed. I have some pictures of myself on Spring Break years ago looking quite the same, but I was passed out in the sand, not in a bed. Oh, and I may have had less clothes on. But let's save those stories for another day, this is a family blog people.

Then there is my Grace, who rarely naps anymore. She passed out on the couch for hours and that is a rarity. I guess I could have been productive while the kids gave me a break, but I must admit, I was tore up from the floor up also. So I tossed my "to do" list aside and did what I never get to do anymore: nothing...

Hail and Farewell~

2009-04-08T21:48:00.009-04:00

The past couple of weeks have been a whirlwind. Not in a bad way. Not in a good way. Just in a way. Just life.

Easter was wonderful, filled with lots of family time and sugar overload.

About a week before Easter, a good friend of ours lost his father to cancer. It brought back painful memories of losing my Dad to the same brutal disease. We attended the wake and funeral, and while doing so we saw friends from the Army that we have not seen in years.

We all had so much fun while stationed at Fort Drum, living day to day as Officers and Officers Wives. Hail and Farewells. Tearing up the town, Watertown! Deployments to Bosnia.

So every bit of it was bitter sweet. It was great seeing old friends but unfortunate as to why we were together again. We always talk about having a Watertown/Fort Drum reunion, and that's going to be something I am going to start working on. So get ready Watertown, NY....we are coming back!

Getting the Swing of Things~

2009-04-07T08:17:00.008-04:00

It's been a bit over five years since I have taken on the role of Mom. I think I am finally getting the hang of it. Now when I hear "Hey Mom," I actually turn my head and respond. Maybe five years seems like a long time, but I never said I was bright, just good looking.

When I made the decision to quit my job as a Marketing and PR Goddess and take on the role of SAHM, I had no clue what I was getting into. The decision, which is obviously a biggie, was not thought out one bit.

It was a Friday and I was stuck in traffic on my way home from work. I called my Hubby and said, "Would you be cool with me not going back to work on Monday?" It took him by surprise, but he said if that's what I really wanted then go for it. And the decision was made. I know it was a totally unprofessional way to quit a job, but the company I was working for had been treating me unprofessionally ever since I returned from my Maternity leave. Call it Karma if you will, but they deserved my no-notice quit and the nasty email I sent to my boss.

Lots of you know I had a hard time at first. I never saw myself as a SAHM and trading in the suits for the sweat pants was a tough transition for me. But I am so thankful that things worked out the way they did.

So now that my oldest is going to be entering Kindergarten and my youngest is going into Preschool, and I wonder where the time has gone. It is so cliche to say, but they really do grow up fast.

Loving Grace~

2009-04-04T21:21:00.001-04:00

This little girl of mine has a big heart. Here she is praying for the people we love who are in heaven. While Denny is peeing on walls, Grace is kneeling down in prayer next to our fire pit.

P is for Park~

2009-03-22T20:11:00.007-04:00

Driving to the park in style

We were only about 10 minutes into playing at the park when Denny said he had to pee. Bob said he was going to walk Denny back home then come back.

Um, why? Go over by the building or back by a bush or tree. It's a huge park, the options are endless.

So while Grace and I ran around the boys went to take care of business. After Denny relieved himself, he was pulling up his drawers and said to my husband, "Don't tell Mama about this."

If he only knew.

Doggie Style~

2009-03-11T10:43:00.005-04:00

Well you all saw how Denny is looking now-a-days. We are keeping it all in the family and decided to shave the dog too. He looks, um, almost nerdy. And small. I can't look at him without laughing. Here is Archie as we all know and love him:

And here is the new (and improved??) Archie...

It doesn't even look like the same dog, does it? He still weighs 108 but he looks so much smaller. And, like I said, goofy. But at least he smells good for a change and I can see his eyes. Unfortunately, he is still an annoying spaz. But we all are in this house, so it's okay.

Buzzin'~

2009-03-07T20:59:00.007-05:00

I have always heard stories about kids cutting other kids hair. Never in a million years did I think my Grace would be one of the "cutters." Denny, yes, but not Grace. Grace is the type of kid who thinks way to much about the consequences. Or so I thought. Saturday afternoon was going great until G took a pair of scissors to D's head. The results:

So we cleaned D all up with the clippers. I think he is as handsome as ever with his new do. He won't stop rubbing his head and asking when his hair is going to grow back. The little man seems pissed at Bob and I, and not at his sister who butchered his hair in the first place. I just pray that D isn't planning on paybacks.

Take Your What Off?

2009-03-02T10:02:00.008-05:00

Jen, Jess, Jodie & Carie before the madness began

As soon as Jess picked me up Saturday night I knew it was going to be a goodie. We couldn't stop laughing and this was pre-vodka and raspberry beer. It's just what the doc ordered. You see, all my lovelies are going through lots of crap right now. Jen is in the middle of a divorce. Jess and her dude broke up. Carie's man recently moved to Philly for work. My husband is addicted to Call of Duty on the Wii (just kidding babe ;)

We started the night at Garage Bar where we consumed one to many of these:

After some bootie shaking we walked across the street to Bier Market for one then jumped in a cab and headed downtown to Maproom. Maproom was a blast and a blur. I ran into one of my favorite Cleveland bloggers from White-Collar redneck.

If you haven't read his blog yet, get off this page and re-direct. It's some good stuff.

We all made it home Saturday night in one piece. My stomach still hurts from laughing and my head still hurts from drinking, but it was well worth it.

Old School~

2009-02-20T21:01:00.004-05:00

Here is my Kindergarten class picture. (you can click on it to enlarge.) Can you guess which one is me? I was 5-years-old, the same age as my darling daughter.

An Interview with my Kids~

2009-02-13T08:40:00.006-05:00

I recently sat down with Grace, age 5, and Denny who is 3.5, and asked them a few questions:

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Grace: A Vet

Denny: A real power ranger

What is your favorite animal?

G: Dog

D: Jaguar (which is the Blue rangers animal power)

Favorite thing to do?

G: Playing with my friends

D: Play with my power rangers

Favorite song?

G: Disturbia

D: Power Rangers

Favorite Movie:

G: Sleeping Beauty

D: Power rangers

Are we noticing a pattern here?

Writing for Examiner.com

2009-02-12T14:30:00.003-05:00

Hey all. Below is a link to a press release sent out by the publication that I am writing for, Examiner.com

Check out the release and let me know if anyone is interested in becoming a writer for them.

Examiner.com to Recruit 12,000 Writers, Called Examiners, in 2009 Across 60 Local Markets

Bowling Babes~

2009-02-08T18:12:00.006-05:00

Last week Grace went to her friends birthday party at the bowling alley. There were six girls, all from Grace's pre-school class. None of them were very interested in bowling, but they all loved hanging out together outside of school. They ran around the place, laughing and having fun. I just love these pictures of all of them. I am gonna print them out for all the parents at the end of the school year.

Anywho, I know I am sucking major butt at keeping this blog updated. I've been using all my writing energy for my Examiner page. Every time I sit down to write a blog post on here, my brain turns to mush and I stare at a blank screen. I was inspired today though by these bowling beauties.

Future Phelps~

2009-01-25T21:56:00.011-05:00

G&D have been taking swimming lessons for a few weeks now. They are kicking ass in class and I am so proud of them. It took some time to get to the point of where they are though. The first two classes, Denny cried the entire time. If anyone would have been crying in swim class, I would have bet the farm it would have been Grace. My Grace, the little lady who freaks out if water gets on her face. My Grace, who never would intentionally put her head under water for fear of death. She had no fear and I know why... She was putting on a brave front for her little brother. Last Monday was the fourth week of class and both G&D were swimming without fear. There was no tears, only smiles. After class, they both talked about how much fun they had and how they couldn't wait until the next class. Here some pics of the little swimmers:

This is what Uncle's are for~

2009-01-18T21:05:00.004-05:00

Tonight marked a first in our home. Bob and I were so proud, we shed tears of joy. Of course I need to share it with my blogger buds. I will endure the shit I get from my son when he is older and realizes that I shared this picture on the Internet.

Tonight, Denny got his first wedgie from his Uncle Timmy. It won't be his last.

We promise no kids were injured. Look at the smile below on Denny's face as he dug the wedge out.

Finally Did Something Right~

2009-01-15T19:13:00.005-05:00

I was flipping through stations and a Barney song came on.

My preschooler said to me, "Turn that crap off and turn on some rock and roll!"

I didn't yell at her for saying crap, but I did give her a high five for having good taste.

Sledding Sucka's~

2009-01-13T13:22:00.004-05:00

Saturday night we decided we would spend the next day sledding. Sunday morning came and the kids were so excited I felt like it was Christmas morning all over again. Bob and I were super pumped too, b/c sledding is a good time, no matter what age you are.

So after 2 hours of prep (and that is not an exaggeration) we were out the door. I should have took my own advice and went to the Metroparks to sled. Instead we went to Ridgewood golf course. We found the perfect hill, but it took a long time to walk to. Not a problem for me and the hubs. Big problem for the little legs of G&D. We made it to the hill and G&D start complaining that they are cold, even though they are wearing layers and layers of clothes.

Long story short, I think we went down the hill three times. So next time sled riding is on the agenda, I am getting a baby sitter. At least we got a few pictures that made it look like we were having fun.

Grace Turns Five~

2009-01-08T22:57:00.005-05:00

Grace w/ her beautiful Grandma's

So Grace's 5th birthday was three days ago and I am just posting about it now. This week has been packed beyond capacity.

My princess turned five on Tuesday, and that was also the day she returned to school from Winter break. She was so stinking excited to go back to school on her bday, she thought that was the coolest thing. Just wait until she gets older and begs to stay home from school on her bday (like I used to do.)

Grace & Bob w/ Grace's new bed

We celebrated her birthday family style with Grandma Debbie (Nana) and Grandma Punkin over for pizza and cake. It was a small and sweet party filled with a whole lot of love.

Later this month, we are having a big blowout at Chunk-E-Cheese with all of Grace's gals from pre-school.

I am still trying to come to terms that my baby is five. She thinks she is the bomb now, and you know what, she is!

Look at that happy lil' big girl

HAPPY 2009~

2009-01-02T15:55:00.003-05:00

Nothing says Happy New Year like a punch in the gut from your buddy in a battle of Hulk Hands...

Or, a nice warm, hug from your sibling to ring in 09...

Wishing everyone the best year ever!

Disney on Ice

2008-12-29T16:01:00.005-05:00

Grace & Alexis saying hi to Cinderella

Grace & Alexis on the train

The Sunday before Xmas, Grace and I went to watch Worlds of Fantasy. It is a Disney ice show that had scenes from The Little Memaid, TInkerbelle, Cars & Lion King.

We went with Grace's BFF from preschool, Alexis, and her mom. We all took the train downtown and went early so we could spend some time looking at the holiday decorations downtown. This was my first Disney on Ice show and I was amazed! It was really cool and I can't wait for the next one to come to town. Here's some pics from the night.

Merry Christmas VLOG from the Keeler Kids~

2008-12-23T10:01:00.000-05:00

WHEN DID 4 BECOME THE NEW 14?~

2008-12-17T21:27:00.006-05:00

Me & G @ Browns training camp, 2007, when I was still #1

Today has been a bit of a blur. Usually I like busy and productive days, but for some reason, this day has been rubbing me wrong. Let me re-phrase... not this day, but this evening. In particular, an hour of my life from approximately 6 - 7pm.

The kids and I had arrived home from some fun x-mas shopping, and it truly was fun. We marched through Target like we owned the place, and even stopped for pizza on the way out. As soon as we pulled up to the house, Grace switched from her usual sweet-talking, lovin' self into some type of, dare I say, teenager? She was bitchy, rude and mean to me. So after some time I became, what I feel was, mean right back to her. Yeah, nice move Mom. Treat a 4-year-old how she is treating you. Good, intelligent parenting at it's best.

I am sitting here writing this, trying to vent a bit, and my eyes are filling with tears because I don't ever want to lose my little girl, and I don't ever want to be any type of mean to her. Maybe I am just a bit worn down and I lost my cool so I'm being extra sensitive. That's it I'm sure, and tomorrow will be a better day, filled with rainbows, perfect parenting and my children loving me every second of the day.

THEY GET THEIR MOVES FROM THEIR FATHER~

2008-12-16T11:49:00.005-05:00

During our nightly bowling game last night, I set up the computer hoping to capture one of Denny's strikes. Of course that never seems to work. As soon as G&D see they are being taped, things get a little goofy. The first 10 seconds of this video I love, then it gets annoying with me telling D to bowl & Grace screaming. I need to figure out how to work the i-movie function on my mac. And hopefully within the next couple of days I will get one of Denny's strike celebrations on video b/c it is priceless. Until then, enjoy~

WIPE OUT~

2008-12-14T15:55:00.001-05:00

This sweet boy can be a bit disgusting some times

Gross but true....

Saturday afternoon Bob was taking a nap with Denny in D's race car bed.

While Bob was falling asleep, Denny started scratching Bob's back. Or so Bob thought.

With sneaky eyes, Bob looked back at his darling son and realized that Denny was NOT scratching his back.

He was picking his nose and wiping boogs on him.

Boys will be boys.

SUCK IT SEARS~

2008-12-11T08:19:00.002-05:00

Preparing small children for getting professional photo's done is a long and complicated process.

It takes serious planning and preparation, but if all goes well, you come out with some great pictures.

We took G&D to Sears to get their Holiday pictures taken. I spent an hour straightening Grace's hair, another hour getting both kids dressed. Then add in all the mental prep and false promises made to the children. Especially to Denny, who is now in the "I am not smiling for the camera" stage.

Once we arrived, we were greeted by our "photographer." Bob and I already sensed we were in trouble. Once we started our session we learned that she was new, all though there was no need for her to speak the words. It was very obvious.

Long story short, on about thirty frames, not one was even close to acceptable. So we walked out with nothing.

So this year when your Christmas card collection doesn't include one from the Keeler's, it's not because we stopped loving you. It's because Sears took a big dump on our holiday cheer.

The Mutt Meets Clause~

2008-12-06T22:16:00.002-05:00

Here's Archie this morning meeting Santa at Petco. Bob went for a run with him and they stopped at the store. Lo and behold, Santa was there so Archie hung with Mr. Clause for a bit and told him a few things on his wish list.

I guess Archie was a big hit at the store. People were lovin' them some Goldendoodle. I always laugh because whenever we take Archie places, we are constantly stopped and people pet the dog and ask millions of questions. We always here about how cute he is and blah, blah, blah. But then when we are at home, everyone who comes over can't stand the dog b/c he is so obnoxious and he will eat your expensive shoes.

Our front door used to be a revolving door of friends and fam stopping over. Now I am lucky if I can get my Mom over my house for my birthday. I know it's the dog, not me, right?

Regardless, I love the mutt and he was in need of a post, so here it is. BTW, Arch went to the vet the other day and weighed in at 96 lbs. He is fat the Vet said, and not with a PH. Fat with a big fat F. He needs to lose 5 lbs and I guarantee it will happen soon since he is Bob's new running partner. And we swapped his milk bones with baby carrots. Happy Holidays Archie.

BETTER LATE THAN NEVER~

2008-12-03T12:15:00.001-05:00

Papa Joe, Uncle Timmy, Nana and G&D

Aunt Patty & D man

I am well aware that Thanksgiving was a week ago and I am just now getting to my Turkey day post. I could just skip it, but it was so wonderful that I need to share at least a few pictures.

Grace and Denny were rock stars this year. When I say that they helped Bob and I prepare the food, I mean it. They really did help out with almost all of the dishes this year. And I will take full advantage of this age where they want to help out. Because I know in a few years, they will want nothing to do with helping, or with me for that matter.

Unfortunately I didn't get any pictures of some of our other guests, including Grandpa Keeler, Aunt Beckie and Uncle Pete. They arrived later into the evening, and by that time I was knee deep into a bottle of Pinot. I was less concerned about taking pictures and more concerned about blaring music and bowling on the wii.

Hope you all had a good one. Now the countdown to Christmas begins!

DON'T WANNA GROW UP~

2008-11-30T20:02:00.006-05:00

The kids are in the kitchen playing with play-dough and Bob and I are playing Cornhole on the Wii. Play-dough is a special treat for when Mommy and Daddy want to be left alone for a good hour.

Grace and Denny have the best conversations with each other when they think that we aren't listening. Here is what I just heard:

G: Yeah Denny, pretty soon I am going to be five!

D: Yeah, me too. Tomorrow I am gonna be five!

G: No Den, I am going to turn five, you are going to turn four.

D: Oh, yeah.

G: Then after five, I will be six. That's just how it goes. I will be six!! Oh my goodness Dennis, I don't want to turn six, I don't want to be an adult! What am I going to do Denny, I really don't want to be an adult!

HOW I MET YOUR FATHER~

2008-11-26T11:33:00.003-05:00

Me & Bob at a friends wedding in '97

It was 13 years ago this night that Bob and I re-met.

We were both home from college, me OSU and Bobby RIT. The night before Thanksgiving is the best party night for college kids and 20-somethings, as everyone is home from school and it's like a huge reunion wherever you go.

Back in 1995, the Flats in Cleveland was a hot spot. I was at Oconner's Irish Pub (underage, but my friends Mom owned the bar.) I still remember what I was wearing...black pants and a white belly shirt. I had just done a shot of Jager and in typical Amanda style, I spilled half of the shot on my shirt. So there I was, in a white shirt with a dark liquor spilled all over the front of it.

I saw Bob as I was walking back from the ladies room. I had not seen him since I was in high school, so it had been a few years. I was now 19 and he was 22.

He walked over to me with his big, gorgeous smile and said "Hey, remember me?"

I acted like I didn't because I was playin' the game. After he "reminded" me how I knew him, we spent the rest of the night catching up.

As I was leaving, he walked me outside and gave me a kiss. My heart melted.

For the rest of the Holiday break, we hung out as much as possible. I was falling hard and fast and I knew it. But I never knew we would make it through the years of separate colleges in different states, Army life and deployments, and lots of stupid mistakes in between it all. We did a lot of growing up together.

Now here we are 13 years later. We have eight years of marriage under our belts and two kids. It is still hard to believe it all.

So now that I am a 30-something wife and momma, this night is still one of my favorites. Thankfully I don't hit the bars anymore. Instead, I spend it with my hubby and kids, prepping everything for Thanksgiving, drinking some wine, listening to music and being truly thankful for what we have.

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!

Our 1st New Years together...we went to Times Square

ELFIN' AROUND

2008-11-25T23:05:00.002-05:00

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

CINDERELLA DREAMS~

2008-11-23T18:39:00.004-05:00

I don't have much time to write, but I wanted to share a picture.

This past Friday, Grandma Debbie came over and took Grace to a Cinderella play.

Through the blizzard they went, the Princesses in their gorgeous ball gowns.

So here they are, looking as beautiful as ever...

Grace had the best time. Thanks Nana for making a memory with our little princess!

LESSON LEARNED~

2008-11-19T21:08:00.002-05:00

The other day I dragged the kids through Marc's to get a "few" things, which always ends up turning into a cart full of things.

Anyway, my bribe to them was "if you guys are good, we will get a slushy on the way out."

So my kids behaved like angels the entire hour we were in the store.

After we paid for our stuff, we all happily walked to the snack counter to place our order.

I thought they would have the classic flavors like cherry, grape, etc.

Instead all they had was Mountain Dew Code Red.

I knew I couldn't go back on the deal I had already made, and there were really no other options. So I reluctantly ordered two small Code Red slushies.

Once we got home, the kids got crahazzy! Jumping, running, screaming.

Grace literally ran into the glass slider and bounced back about 20 feet.

Both kids were foaming at the mouth while their eyes rolled back into their heads.

I now know what crazy is, I looked it in the face and I was terrified.

Somehow, someway, I survived. I AM a survivor.

LIFE IS A BLUR~

2008-11-17T10:10:00.001-05:00

Denny and Dad

I swear to you that since last Wednesday, life has been a blur. That explains why I haven't posted for awhile. Bob's Dad has been in town from Florida, so we have been enjoying his company. And if you are at all interested, here's what we have been up to...

I had a ladies night mid-week in remembrance of Mike. We got together for drinks and shared some stories, laughter and tears. We all drank way to much but had a blast, so it was all worth it even the next day.

The following day we had an open house at Grace's school. Grace had such a good time showing off her classroom and friends to all the family. I am so proud of my little girl.

Friday we went a Lake Erie Monsters game. It was $1 hot dog night and we all bet on how many dogs Denny would consume. We placed 10 in front of him and I think he ended up eating three.

Denny not sure what to do w/ all the dogs

Saturday was Beckie's birthday and Pete planned a dinner at Shintos. You can never go wrong at Shintos. The hibachi part and the sushi are always amazing.

Me, Bob and the kids @ Shintos

Pete & Beck @ Shintos

Now this week is filled with lots more. Today I am making chili for tonight's Browns party. Later this week Grace and Nana are going to see a Cinderella play and G is super excited.

GO Browns!!

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BOYS & GIRLS~

2008-11-11T16:06:00.005-05:00

This pretty much sums it up.

Denny the wild man and Grace as careful as can be.

Sorry I had to link to you tube, but blogger wouldn't upload it.

BE OKAY~

2008-11-08T12:07:00.007-05:00

Inspired by Nina, this is to my girls who need it most.

There is a lot of hurt in my circle of friends right now. It seems like everyone has some stuff going on that is making for some heavy hearts.

Also, in a couple of days will mark the two year anniversary of the loss of a dear, dear friend.

This is and now will forever be a hard time of year as we remember the life of Mike, who touched us all in so many ways.

Click here and know we will all be okay!

LAZY LORD~

2008-11-06T16:54:00.005-05:00

Some mornings Grace gets up with Bob before he leaves for work.

The other day, Grace said to him, "Daddy, I think Jesus is lazy."

Bob asked her why in the world she would think such a thing.

Grace responds with, "Because it's morning and he hasn't even

put the sun out yet."

Maybe I do need to enroll her into a Catholic school next year :)

TURN THE VOLUME DOWN BEFORE U WATCH~

2008-11-04T21:34:00.004-05:00

This was not staged.

The kids heard me yelling "Obama" after he won Ohio. Then G&D started doing it so I turned the macbook camera on. The only thing we asked was for them to yell it a bit louder b/c we weren't sure if it was captured.

ANOTHER EXAMPLE WHY I SHOULD BE NOMINATED FOR MOM OF THE YEAR~

2008-11-03T10:44:00.002-05:00

Denny spent last Wednesday morning at my Mom's while I worked at Grace's school.

When I walked into my Mom's to pick Denny up, she pulled my into the corner with a shit eating grin on her face.

What's up I asked?

Apparently while Denny was with my Mom, the word "hate" came up. Denny then said that it's a bad word, so no one should ever say it.

Instead of leaving it there, my Mom had to ask my 3-year-old son what are some other bad words?

Darling little dude said, "Stupid, Mean, Hate & Fuck it."

TRICK OR TREAT PICS~

2008-11-01T18:36:00.001-04:00

Hope everyone had a fab Halloween. I know we did. So good that we all slept until 10am today. The kids ate their hearts out in chocolate and sugar goodies. After trick or treating, all the neighbors got together for pizza, beer and cornhole. The kids played outside until way late, burning off the sugar high.

Good stuff!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN~

2008-10-31T06:02:00.001-04:00

Grace & Denny in the hay maze @ boo @ the zoo

BOO!!!

Happy Halloween to everyone. If you are going out partying this weekend, have fun and be safe!

If you are trick-or-treating this weekend, have fun and I hope you get all the good candy!

IF WISHES CAME TRUE~

2008-10-29T16:23:00.001-04:00

Saturday night Bob took Grace to a birthday party and I hung out with the boy.

My Dad's ashes are in an urn sitting in our living room.

Neither of my kids ever had the chance to meet my Dad, so they only know him through stories, photos and "the urn."

Denny went over to the urn and kissed it and said I love you Grandpa Dennis. Then he looked at me and said "Mom, I really want him to come out of there."

Me too bud, me too.

KETCHUP~

2008-10-27T20:29:00.005-04:00

Pete & Bob before the race

Saturday morning we headed downtown for a 5K. Bob and Pete ran while me and Beckie hung with the kids. They had a ton of cool stuff set up in the Galleria for the kids to do.

Sunday was my birthday and also a fund raiser for Bob's cousin Samantha. The turn out was amazing and I just want to thank all of our friends who attended. I know a ton of money was raised for the Scholarship Fund that was create in her name. Thanks for showing the love!

After the fund raiser, Bob took the kids home and I went out to Mulligans for a few drinkies.

Today I spent the day recovering from the busy weekend and I can't wait for Halloween this Friday!

THIS IS WHY I RARELY LEAVE THE HOUSE~

2008-10-20T20:22:00.006-04:00

Monday evening I went over Jess's for a little bit. When I came home, Bob and the kids are anxiously telling me I have to look in Grace's room b/c they hung up a new picture on her wall. I was thinking that while I was away, they did some art and hung it in her room.

I walk into Grace's room and what do I see?

Oh yeah, that is me and the Nelson brothers, circa 1987.

My Dad didn't think it was good enough to just have the picture framed, he had to have it made into a giant glossy poster.

The funniest part of it all is that Grace is begging Bob to take it down from her wall. She said she will not sleep, CAN NOT SLEEP, in her room with that goofy picture hanging there. I don't blame her. That photo can give anyone nightmares, especially a 4-year-old girl.

She also wants to know who the three girls in the picture are. She refuses to believe that it is me in the picture and the other two are dudes.

The cool thing for me is that I now remember what my natural hair color is.

THE PERFECT FALL WEEKEND~

2008-10-19T20:42:00.003-04:00

Pumpkin picking & pumpkin carving.
Late night pumpkin seed snacking.
Warm apple cider & kettle corn.

Tree houses and hay rides.

Raking leaves then jumping into the colorful piles.

How did you spend your weekend?

Party of Five~

2008-10-16T08:39:00.003-04:00

My new tag line for my blog should be "More changes than Puff Daddy, P-Diddy, Puffy, Sean John", whatever he is going by now.

As much as I hate changes, I like changing my blog... a lot.

And expect another name change soon. I can not stand the generic-ness of Party of Five. It literally makes me cringe every time I see it.

CHICAGO~

2008-10-15T15:19:00.007-04:00

The marathon from Eric's window. 45,000 people ran

I haven't had a chance yet to blog about our Chicago trip. Really I mean I haven't had the energy to blog about Chicago yet. Yes, it does take energy some days to blog.

So 3 days in Chi-town and besides consuming way too much alcohol, some of the other highlights included:

Shopping

Losing my money in a Casino

Watching the Chicago Marathon

Sushi and plum wine

Watching a shirtless man with a fake 2 foot boner walk the streets

"Borrowing" souvenirs from bar

Whenever I return from a real city, I always spend days questioning why we are still in Cleveland. Besides the obvious friends and family, this place kinda sucks. But I am not going to go on an anti-Cleveland rant, we all did enough of that when we were in the windy city. I am glad to be home though only because I missed the kids. Now that I have been home for a few days, I am ready to get rid of the kids again. Any takers?

Bob & Eric at the marathon with one of our bar souvenirs

Thanks Eric for your hospitality and thanks Mom and Joe for watching the babes! We had an amazing weekend.

ROAD TRIPPIN'~

2008-10-07T20:47:00.004-04:00

Road trippin' to Chicago this weekend with Bob and Jess. I'm in search of some good tunes to drive to. All comments will be greatly appreciated! I have a bunch of i-tunes cards ready to use :)

SWEETNESS~

2008-10-05T18:07:00.001-04:00

Can anything be any sweeter than a 4-year-old telling you that thoughts of her family make her "heart warm and tummy tickle."

I am so blessed.

FALLING INTO THE SKY~

2008-10-03T13:17:00.001-04:00

Last weekend we went to the drive in with the kids and this was the sky that we enjoyed on the way there. I couldn't get over it's beauty although this picture isn't even close to capturing it.

It has been brought to my attention that Denny has been dominating my blog posts. Am I playing favorites here? Of course not. D man has been very "bloggable" lately but I promise the next post will include lots of Gracie.

Hope everyone has an awesome weekend and please take my poll to the left!

I'M THE MAN~

2008-09-27T21:55:00.004-04:00

Here is my boy Denny working on his scholarship to Ohio State. Hey Couch Tressel, we are ready for you! We've been working hard all weekend. He is the man~

INDIVIDUALITY~

2008-09-24T17:21:00.000-04:00

You all saw in a previous post how my man Denny has been rollin' around the burbs lately. Well, today he has began another way to roll, this time in Bob's swimming goggles. Everywhere we went he had them on, inside or out, and would not take them off until we arrived home.

Yes, people stare, laugh, point and comment, and I am pretty sure the kids at Grace's school think Denny is a source of daily entertainment. Whatever works to keep them happy, keeps me happy.

CH-CH-CH-Changes~

2008-09-23T10:21:00.003-04:00

Well our day and night without kids is over and it is back to the daily grind.

We went to Stacia's party on Saturday but only stayed for a couple of hours. She lives kinda far away so a lot of people wanted to get closer to home the later it got. So we were back in our neck of the woods by 9pm. Everyone wanted to go out and usually going out is going to a bar.

I have to realize that when we are kid-less, we don't need to go to a bar, there are other things to do. For some reason I am still programed that way.

I am sure it didn't help that I was in a bad mood. So as much as I didn't want to be around people, I'm sure they didn't want to be around me also.

It's hard to explain, but I feel like a lot of things are changing around me. I always thought that I embraced change, but now I am not so sure. There are new relationships, new break-up's, new people, and it's harder for me to get used to than I thought it would be.

FRIDAY FUN~

2008-09-19T09:56:00.001-04:00

Bob and I bought a Macbook last week as an early anniversary and joint birthday gift to ourselves and each other. I am still getting to know my lovely Macbook which is the likely reason for so many blog posts this week.

One of the fun features is called photo booth. Every time I use it I can't help but think of Nina and her love of photo booths.

I can't believe it is Friday already. Weeks rarely go by fast anymore, but this one did and for that I am a happy mama. Saturday we are going to be kid free thanks to Gamma Debbie and Papa Joe.

One of my BFF's, Stacia, is having her birthday party Saturday at her Mom's new house. Pool volleyball, cornhole, more food than you can stand and flowing cocktails! Bob and I are in serious need of a day like that and a little break from our little lovelies.

JUST IN CASE YOU NEED A LAUGH~

2008-09-17T08:40:00.005-04:00

If you need an extra little something this hump day, here is D in his new favorite outfit. I call it an outfit, rather than costume, because for the past three days D has worn it everywhere we go. It was given to him by his best buddy Tyler. Thanks again Ty!

SHE'S LIKE THE WIND~

2008-09-15T09:06:00.007-04:00

So here's how my day started...

I dropped our video camera on the floor. As I was going to pick it up, I spilled an entire glass of water on it.

Then I went outside to take pictures (with my regular camera) of the storm damage, and my camera stops working.

When I was walking back towards the house, Archie started going all Cujo on my ass. Literally, he bit me in the ass and this time it's going to leave a mark. He continued to harass me and try to kill me until I threw Denny's toy lawn mower at him. (Don't worry, he's fine...I'm the one bleeding from my ass.)

So Hurricane Ike blew through here last night with winds up to 60 MPH. Let me start by telling you I live on a street called Woodview. It is filled with huge, old trees.

So here is one picture that Bob took last night of the tree part that crashed down onto our fence.

Nice huh'! You should see the front yards around here. They are all littered with tree's, wires are down, red cones are set up everywhere. Grace said it best this morning..."it's kind of spooky around here."

IF YOU WANT IT TO RAIN, LET ME THROW A PARTY~

2008-09-13T08:50:00.002-04:00

It never fails. I swear to you, whenever we plan on having a party, it rains.
Today was supposed to be our annual cornhole tournament, my favorite party of the year.
But Mother Nature isn't playing nice, and it has been raining non-stop for 24 hours and will continue all day today. Thank God I didn't order a ton of food like I normally do. All is not lost though. There is a huge Ohio State game tonight so if you were planning on coming over, still stop on by for some Buckeye action.
Go Bucks.

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL~

2008-09-09T18:43:00.003-04:00

Here are some pictures of Grace's first day of school. She said she was nervous, but had fun. We will see how the rest of the week goes.
Sorry for the lack of blogging, I'm just kind of sick of it.

ANOTHER BIG GIRL STEP~

2008-08-25T07:19:00.000-04:00

Bob signed Grace up for soccer, her first sport! He was so excited to take Grace to Dick's Sports and get her all the goodies required to play. It's no surprise that she choose everything in pink. She may be growing up, but she still loves her some pink.
We want to get Denny into something also but it seems like the minimum age is four. I keep thinking about signing him up for karate. It would be hilarious seeing him in a little karate uniform and then maybe he could finally win one of his fights with Grace.

Enjoying The Ride~

2008-08-18T08:38:00.006-04:00

The past week I have been checking out preschools and trying to calm my nerves at the same time. I know preschool isn't "real" school, and it is only a few days a week. However, I am still having a hard time believing that my little girl is going to start preschool in a couple of weeks.

I feel like it was only yesterday that she was my sweet little pudgy ball of love. Now when Bob and I look at her, we always say there is no "baby" left in her. It is sad but exciting at the same time.

With that being said, I want the last weeks of summer to kick some major butt. I am looking for new ideas of fun stuff to do. This week we are going to give letterboxing a try. I know Nina and Jen are avid fans of it and it is something we have been wanting to do.

Today I am going to borrow my moms convertible and take the kids for a ride, maybe stop in the Metroparks for a walk and some ice cream.

If anyone else has any ideas, please share them!

AT LEAST THEY CAN AGREE~

2008-08-14T20:09:00.006-04:00

Today, Grace asked me, "Mom, who do you like better? Me or Denny."

My obvious response was, "I like and love you both the same."

Not convinced or satisfied with my answer, Grace rolled her eyes and said, "I know that's not true Mom. Denny is annoying and I'm not. So you like me more."

Then Denny pipes in and says, "Yeah, I am annoying."

R.I.P. BCBG~

2008-08-07T21:21:00.005-04:00

Oh man...
Imagine your favorite shoes.
A beautiful pair of BCBG's that you have eyeballed in the store many times.

Finally you decide to treat yourself to the shoes because you are that in love with them.

My dear friend Jessica came over Saturday night and left her shoes in the living room while we all chilled in the sun room and relaxed over some wine.
A couple of hours passed and Jess was getting ready to leave. She went to get her shoes and could only find one. So her and I began to look under couches, tables, chairs. We were even lifting up cushions.
No luck.
Then Jess asked the dreaded question..."What about Archie."
In most instances of a missing shoe, Archie would be the first thing we'd turn too. However, this evening, we were all out in the sun room (including the dog) all night, so I assumed there was no way Archie could of got them.
I took a look in the back yard and there was a trail of shoe. A trail of glorious brown leather, other parts and pieces. Then I saw the remains.
Damn, did I feel like shit.
I offered to buy a new pair of shoes, I offered to kick the dog a few times, anything to help ease the pain of the loss.

I can not wait for Archie to get out of this psycho puppy stage. He will be 1 next month, and I think another 6 months and we should be good.
Hopefully I will still have friends by then.

BACK TO BASICS~

2008-08-06T13:23:00.006-04:00

Already August, and I am not going to let the rest of Summer slip on by.

Over the weekend, we took the kids on a boat ride with Pirate Willie. We went to the Browns training camp, which has become a tradition for us. We have been building rockets and shooting them up high into the sky.

We are finding all the carnivals and riding rides until our heads are spinning.

Although there is much more to write, I just wanted to post a quickie blog and some pictures to let you all know I am still here. Slacking a bit on blogging, but here none the less.

HEAVY HEARTS~

2008-07-31T15:41:00.002-04:00

It's weird to write when there has been so much going on.
More than anything, we are all still mourning the deaths of Sam and Marco.
We have been consumed with so much sadness and overwhelming emotions. There was such an out pouring of support from the community and beyond. These two kids were loved by so many and will be missed forever.

If you would like to leave a message for the family, the link below will take you to Sam's guest book.
http://obits.cleveland.com/Cleveland/DeathNotices.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonId=113959672

In between all the sadness, we had a wedding for two of our best friends, Judi and Scott. We went to an Indians game with Pete and Becki. We spent some time with Eric and Danni. This was all within a week. So as our hearts were heavy, we try to get back to normal.

In the next few days I will post some pictures from the wedding and family time.

LOSS~

2008-07-22T15:09:00.002-04:00

Samantha & Mom

This past Sunday afternoon, Bob's little cousin Samantha died in a car accident. She was 18-years-old and just graduated from high school. Her boyfriend also passed away in the accident.

They were driving home from a family picnic when another car going in the opposite direction smashed into them. Samantha was getting ready to start college to become a nurse. You can see from the picture what a beautiful girl she was.

I always wonder if things like this are appropriate to post on my blog, and I usually do post because I believe in the power of prayer. It goes without saying that Samantha's parents and
siblings need your thoughts and prayers, as does the rest of the family.

I wonder why and how something so tragic can happen to 2 sweet kids who were just starting their lives.

Soakin' Up the Summer Goodness~

2008-07-13T07:47:00.000-04:00

The babes went fishing today for the first time, and both of them caught a little love. The picture below is of Grace's catch, but she wouldn't hold it up for a picture, so Uncle Pete did the honors.
Denny was a tad more friendly with his fish. Although he would not touch it, he got much closer.
So far, Summer has been treating us well. The kids are really into everything we have been doing. They are at such great ages now that outings are enjoyable for everyone, rather than the years before when it seemed like more work than anything.
Cheers to everyone~

I DO~

2008-07-01T08:33:00.002-04:00

My beautiful sis-in-law and the love of her life, Pete, tied the knot on Saturday.
It was a gorgeous wedding and we all had such a great time. It is hard to believe that it is over already. I feel like they just got engaged.

The ceremony was a traditional Catholic one, yet so unforgettable. Being in the wedding party, I had a front row seat to all the emotions. When Becki began her walk down the aisle with Dad, I kept my eyes on Pete. I will never forget the look on his face when he saw her.

Then watching Dad give Becki away was another moment that I know I will keep forever.

Grace and Denny did fabulous at their duties of Flower Girl and Ring Bearer. I was nervous they wouldn't make it down the aisle but they did, no problems!

Here are a few more pictures from the day~

Bob and his brother Tim

Denny, Jessica and Grace @ the reception

Denny, Grace & Rocco getting their grooves on

REHEARSAL DINNER~

2008-06-27T12:32:00.003-04:00

Pete giving Beck a Tiffany necklace

Last night we had the rehearsal dinner for Becki and Pete's wedding. It was held at Swingo's on the lake, and everything was so beautiful. Enjoy some pictures from the night, and I will be back to blogging next week.

GLORY DAYS~

2008-06-20T06:31:00.000-04:00

Here are my babies wearing Bob's high school letter man jacket. I took a bunch of shots and framed them for him for Dad's day.

Speaking of Dads, today Bob's Dad is coming in town from Florida. And, it is Tim's birthday. So today we are going to cook out and enjoy some family time.

On the home front, Bob and I have been re-doing our living room. We ripped the carpet out, cleaned up the original hard wood floors, and moved some things around. The days and nights are so busy, I feel like everything is one big blur.

Did I mention my Sister (in-law) is getting married next weekend?

I know I am all over the place, but my mind is going a mile a minute.

I just wanted to check in with all my bloggie buds and share these adorable pics of G&D~

I'M FEELING HOT, HOT, HOT

2008-06-10T10:46:00.000-04:00

Monday was hot. Gross, setting records kind of hot. We've been outside with the kids non-stop for the past week or so. Monday, I needed a day inside with the A/C cranked. With that being said~

Grace and Denny were playing house. Grace was the mommy and Denny was the mommy too. Yes, D was a mama. You see, whatever Grace does or is, Denny has to do the same. So when Grace calmly tried to explain to Den that he was a boy so he was the Daddy, he wasn't having it. She tried to argue it out for a few minutes, but once she realized he wasn't budging, there was two Mama's. That made me happy b/c hopefully when the kids are older and in school, they will actually have friends who have two moms or two dad's.

Anyway, they were playing house for a good 30 minutes in Grace's room. I wanted to sit and observe so I laid on G's bed and told them to pretend I wasn't there. However, all you parents know that doesn't work as planned. MOM! is in the room or DAD! is in the room and you become part of the game. While G&D were being married and taking care of their "so many" kids, G&D started fighting over something. I tried to explain in 4-year-old language about marriage and compromise. Grace totally got it! She handed over Denny the object they were fighting over and calmly told me in her low voice that Denny was annoying her but she still loved him.

Then she got right in my face and whispered...."You know how it is Mom. Husbands can be soooo annoying."

MELT MY HEART~

2008-06-02T20:08:00.004-04:00

Grace had her first dance recital on Sunday. Dude, can I just tell you all how sweet it was. My heart is still warm and fuzzy. I cried when she performed and I cried when she came out at the end for her curtain call. It was her first time on stage and I am so proud of her. There were 500 people watching and she did it. I know I would have froze up, but my girl did her thing. It was priceless and I wish you all could have been there to see it.

Once the show was over, I went backstage and gave Grace a bouquet of flowers. Then we all took her out to dinner where she was beaming from ear to ear. The pictures posted of her on stage are from her dress rehearsal on Saturday. We weren't aloud to take video or photos on the day of the actual show. The other pics are from Sunday.

I have to give props to Denny, also, who sat for two hours, the entire length of the show. That's pretty impressive too!

Grace & my Mom, after the show

2008-05-29T08:52:00.001-04:00

Hi Peeps. Long time no see. I am one sick Momma right now, so instead of trying to write anything worth reading, I will post some pics from Memorial day weekend. It consisted of the Kenny Chesney concert (we got up to the front row!!!!!), cooking out with the family, and Judi's wonderful wedding shower. It was one of the best weekends in a long time, a great kick off to the summer! Hope everyone is doing well and I will be back soon!tailgateing before the concert

beckie, me & tracy

tracy's standard "good times" pose

the girls @ judi's shower

TOGETHER WE REQUEST THE HONOR OF YOUR PRESENSE

2008-05-20T08:57:00.003-04:00

I was at Target the other day without the kids. When I shop without children, I like to take time and browse the greeting cards. I don't know if you have ever tried looking at cards with kids in tow, but it is always a disaster.
While I was checking out some cards, there was a woman next to me who was bitching to her friend that she has 2 weddings coming up this summer. The girl (who looked about my age) was bitching and moaning about how much she hates attending weddings. I spent 15 minutes fake reading cards just so I could listen to her rant. Now this isn't the first time I have heard someone hate on weddings.
I don't know about you, but I love going to weddings/receptions. We have 4 this Summer and I am totally looking forward to them. I understand they can get expensive, but so is any night out. I look at a wedding as a big as party to celebrate love. It's a time to see old friends, get dressed up, drink way too much and dance. Weddings are the only time my hubby gets on the dance floor. Almost every wedding we've been too, the night ends with doing the worm and gator. What could be better than that my friends?

BIRTHDAY BOY

2008-05-14T08:59:00.001-04:00

Today my darling Dennis Patrick turns 3.

Terrible threes, I am ready for you! This isn't my first rodeo. I went through it only a year ago with Grace, so I am no rookie. Bring it on.

All our sweet boy wants for his bday is cake. Cake is his new obsession. We had his bday party last Saturday and D was more interested in his cake then his presents.

Today he is going out to breakfast with Grandma Debbie, then I am going to spoil him all day long.

MAMA'S RULE

2008-05-11T20:22:00.003-04:00

Happy mother's day to all you lovely mom's out there. Hope everyone has the best day ever!

SELF PORTRAIT CHALLENGE ~ FRESH

2008-05-06T15:12:00.004-04:00

This month's SPC is Fresh.

For me, Spring is the "freshest" of all the months. So many ideas come to mind when I think of Spring. In the photo below, I am enjoying the fresh air of the great outdoors. Feels great after months stuck inside the house.

Check out some other SPC's here.

B.F.F.

2008-05-01T10:38:00.006-04:00

Wednesday night I met some of the girls for Sushi and drinks. Simone was in town from Florida and Jen was out in rare form, ready to party. In a nut shell, the night was...

Non stop talking; non-stop listening.

Lot's of laughter. Lot's of love.

Open hearts.

Admitting our faults and what we need to fix.

Tears for the loss of loved ones.

Celebrating our lives.

Making plans.

Making up.

Looking ahead and looking behind.

Consoling a friend who just lost their Mom.

Covering up a friend who was done for the night.

It was supposed to be just dinner, and become so much more. Good times. Love my gals always.

JUST WHEN YOU START TO THINK YOU AREN'T SCREWING THEM UP TOO MUCH

2008-04-29T11:26:00.005-04:00

I am sitting here working on 1,000 words for "Best Ways to Educate Your Child."

Out comes Grace in a purple skirted bathing suit, high heels and jewelry. She struts her stuff through the kitchen saying, "I am soooo sexy."

I threw my article in the trash bin b/c I am pretty sure listening to Justine Timberlake on repeat play last year isn't the best way to educate your child. Which is really the only way she can know "sexy." I threw that word out of my vocab when the first stretch mark appeared five years ago. Why that word sticks in her mind rather than all the other wonderful words that I actually taught her, I will never know. I do know that I am choosing a new topic for my article. Maybe something I know a bit more about.

2008-04-22T15:37:00.004-04:00

Grace, Mia & Denny @ the Zoo

I know this blog has been extra boring as of late. Trust me, there's a lot going on, I am just suffering from serious writers block. I even missed my last 2 deadlines for the Parenting magazine that I freelance for. It is hard to maintain a certain style of writing once you are out of the work force. When I was "working" outside of the home, writing was never an issue. It always came naturally. Now that I have been a SAHM for 4 years, I notice that my writing comes and goes.

The past week or so we have all been enjoying the weather. Lots of outside play time, swings, slides, sand, trips to the zoo & dog parks, and of course, Cornhole. Come on over and play!

JUNO

2008-04-19T08:50:00.003-04:00

I watched "Juno" last night. It took me a good half an hour to get into b/c I felt like I was watching a high school kids movie. But then I was hooked and fell madly in love with it's originality.
I also appreciate a movie that is 96 minutes long. Is anyone else sick of all these new movies coming out that are 2+ hours?

SYRUP, ANYONE?

2008-04-10T09:47:00.004-04:00

I am sure you have seen the movie Elf, and if you have not, stop reading this junk and get up to Blockbuster NOW.

Any who, my kids have begun a love affair with syrup. They crave it every morning and yes, I give it to them. I remember being their age and feeling the same way. I recall mornings at the breakfast table, staring at the Mrs Butterworth bottle and waiting for it to come to life and talk to me. Grace and Denny don't get the fancy stuff. They are stuck with Giant Eagle reduced calorie syrup, but they love it just the same. And you know what, it gets the day started with a bang. I drink my coffee, and G&D basically drink their syrup. That's no joke either. You see, they love to dunk their breakfast in the syrup. So as they dunk their waffles or french toast sticks, they also dunk their fingers and/or forks into the syrup and slurp away.

Now we haven't gone as far as Elf...we are not at the point yet of pouring syrup onto our spaghetti. Syrup hasn't made it into our dinners yet. Well, except for the other night, but it was already added by the manufacturer, not the mama. I made baked beans and they happen to be maple syrup flavored. Normally, Grace would not touch a baked bean if it was the last food on earth. However, when I told her there was maple syrup in the beans, she proceeded to eat an entire can.

Disclaimer for this mom of the year....each morning the kids breakfast includes lots of fresh fruit and a vitamin. If they happen to dunk that in syrup, I may happen look the other way.

Doggie Style

2008-04-07T20:46:00.004-04:00

We made our first trip to the dog park this weekend and it was dogalicious. We had such a good time and I am sure Archie did also. It was a Sunday afternoon, 60 degrees and there were about 30 dogs running around.

Our enormous puppy was a hit. Everyone was loving on him and asking us a million questions. Archie was a rock star I must say and he did so amazing with all the dogs. If any dog gave him any shit, he just walked away. Bob and I sat on a bench with G&D and watched all the action. Surprisingly, Arch didn't even try to get his hump on. We were so proud. I know I usually bitch and complain about the dog, but I do love the big fluff ball.

ME & MY I-POD

2008-04-02T08:34:00.000-04:00

I thought this would be fun and as I am doing it, I love it. So don't be shy and play along...

I hit shuffle on my i-pod and I'll share the first 10 songs that came up. I always say, if you want to get personal with someone, check their play list. So on random shuffle of 459 songs, here's what we have..

1. Tiny Dancer ~ Elton John

2. Glycerine ~ Bush

3. When I Get Where I'm Going ~ Dolly & Brad Paisley

4. Do You Wanna ~ Josh Radin

5. Crazy in Love ~ Beyonce & Jay Z

6. Something ~ Beatles

7. Love the One Your With ~ Isly Brothers

8. Ball & Chain ~ Social D

9. Don't Stop Believing ~ Journey

10. Nothing But a Good Time ~ Poison

I'm not tagging anyone. If you read this, just do it.

You're turn to share in comments or on your blog.

~HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANA~

2008-03-31T09:35:00.002-04:00

We want to wish Debbie, a.k.a. Nana, a happy birthday! We love you and had so much fun bowling with you and Joe on Sunday.

Enjoy your day today and have a blast at the home opener. Go Tribe!

2008-03-26T10:09:00.006-04:00

Today is shaping up to be a better day already, although we are still missing Dad & Precious like crazy. Precious is Dad's dog, pictured above. Grace loves this dog more than she loves our dog Archie. It's no secret, Grace says it everyday since she laid eyes on Precious 10 days ago.

So far today, I slept in until 9am! Denny is a little under the weather with a cough and sore throat (passed on with love from Grace who just got over the same thing.) When he isn't 100%, he likes to sleep in, and mama likes to sleep in, so I make out from his sufferings.

However, before you assume I am a lazy, bad mom, let me tell you how last night went.

Bob and I went up to bed around 10pm and watched TV until midnight. Then the games began. As soon as I turned off the TV and closed my eyes for a good nights sleep, things got goofy.

The dog began breathing so hard it was impossible to fall asleep.

Then Archie was barking to be let outside.

Then Archie would not come back inside.

Then Grace wakes up and wants to know why Archie keeps waking her up.

Then Denny has a coughing attack and needs more ice water to cool his throat.

Archie starts panting again, I look at the clock and it's 3:30am.

Bob was the one who was taking care of the majority of this crap. I think I only got out of bed to get Archie back in the house & put G back to bed once. So although I got to sleep in, he didn't and is probably having a miserable day toady as I am sitting here refreshed, on my 3rd cup of coffee.

Anyway, the sun is actually out and it's 45 degrees. That is most likely what is making me smile right now. That and the goofy dance that Denny is doing while I type this.

BYE BYE BUNNY

2008-03-25T15:39:00.004-04:00

I have never had post-holiday blues when it comes to Easter. This year I have them. I think a lot of it has to do with Dad going back to Florida. He headed back early Monday morning. We are going to miss him so darn much and I really wish he lived closer. Moving to Florida is always an option as long as we get the whole family on board. We talk about it all the time so you never know.

My Mom w/ G&D

It's "officially" Spring, but you wouldn't know it around here. There is still snow on the ground, it's cold and gray. I'm pretty sure it is supposed to snow again some time this week. I am trying to keep busy and pass the days until the sun comes back out and we all feel better.

We hope everyone had a great Easter!

The Keeler's

HOPPY EASTER PEEPS

2008-03-22T19:33:00.001-04:00

Wishing everyone a very Happy and blessed Easter. Hope you all enjoy the day with family and loved ones.

LOVE, LOVE ME DO

2008-03-21T15:31:00.003-04:00

Oh, the beauty and innocence of young love. Grace and her husband/Prince spent a romantic afternoon together at Chunk E Cheese.
This was the first time that Bob's Dad has seen Grace and Joey together. Dad noticed how smitten Grace was with Joey and asked, "is there something I should know." Then we filled him in on Grace's "obsession" with Joey and how the two of them actually married last year.
We all had fun watching and playing with the kids. And if I may brag for just a sec, I hit my all time high score in skeet ball...350,000 points. I dare you to try to beat that.

WE ARE ALL IRISH TODAY

2008-03-17T16:20:00.007-04:00

Happy St. Patrick's Day.

We are hanging low here. I am cooking corned beef & cabbage, and taking our traditional cabbage head photos.

No bar hopping for me today. Although hanging out with a 3 & 4-year-old sometimes feels like I am at the bar surrounded by drunks.

Have fun, be safe!

BACK HOME

2008-03-13T16:19:00.002-04:00

Beck, Dad, Bob & Timmy

Me & Dad

Donna passed away on Friday, March 7th in the early morning. We were all there with her and with Dad of course. She passed on but saved a few lives at the same time. She donated her organs and her kidneys have already been used.

It was obviously emotional but I am so thankful that we were able to be there for a week with Dad. I feel as though we all became closer as a family and Donna will now be watching over all of us. She will be so greatly missed.

Much needed relaxing walk on the ocean

We cried a lot but laughed a lot also. That is what Donna would have wanted. Her memorial service was Monday and it turned out so beautiful. A slide show, photos, flowers all adorned the rooms and so many people came to offer support and to say their goodbyes to such an amazing woman.

I had the honor of meeting two of Donna's best friends and I now consider them both friends of mine. They reminded me a lot of Donna and I enjoyed hearing stories about the times they spent with her.

Bob, Me & Timmy

Bob's sister Beck is still in Florida with Dad. They are both going to be driving to Cleveland this weekend. The kids are so excited to see Grandpa and I know they will put a smile on his face. Continue to pray for Dad during this difficult time.

Thanks to everyone back home who helped out so Bob and I were able to go. xoxo

Bob, Beck, Dad & Timmy

2008-03-04T15:13:00.004-05:00

I've been up since the butt crack of dawn. Went out first thing and voted. I then had a lovely lunch with Jen, Chippy, Tracy my kids and their kids. We talked about our crazy night out on Saturday, filled in some blanks for one another. I am blessed with the best of friends. I know I say it all the time, but I am so appreciative of it.
I will share some pics of our night out when I get back to blogging.
I may be away for a few days. We have a family emergency in Florida. Bob's Dad's wife Donna had a massive heart attack and stroke on Friday. She has taken a turn for the worse and things are not looking good. She is in a coma and is only alive through machines. We are going to be heading to Daytona in the next couple of days. Please pray for our family and pray for strength for Dad.

CRY ME A RIVER

2008-02-28T19:24:00.003-05:00

I still have a headache & it has turned me into a major biatch. I haven't left the house all week except for tonight to get some Advil migraine. Denny has been whining non-stop. Archie is totally out of control. I yell so hard sometimes I see stars. I'm annoyed and annoying. Thank heavens it is almost the weekend. I am going out Saturday night with the girls. We have a free limo so we are going to go downtown and tear it up. With none of us responsible for driving, it should make for a crazy night. We have bets on who will puke first. It might just be me if this headache doesn't go away.

Goldensnowball

2008-02-26T12:45:00.003-05:00

This is what a Goldendoodle looks like after playing in the snow.

Poor Arch, that can't feel good. These snowballs form all over his body and they are as hard as rocks. You can't just brush them off, they have to melt off. So the entire house has little puddles of melted snow wherever Arch lays. Have you ever had a snowball fight inside before? We have!

CAN YOU TELL ME HOW TO GET, HOW TO GET TO...

2008-02-25T18:23:00.004-05:00

This weekend was full of goodness.
The best part was going to the theatre with the kids. We took them to see Seasame Street Live, Elmo Makes Music. Their first time in Palace Theatre means the world to me. I love going into the theatre district of Cleveland. It truly is all inspiring. The beauty of these buildings are something you need to see first hand. The kids enjoyed the show. They were bobbing their heads, clapping their hands the entire time.
Friday we hung with Beckie and Pete and I finally saw a pic of Becks wedding dress. Can I just say gorgous!
Saturday after naps we went to Tracy's where Bob did some "stuff" around the house. Then we went shopping for D and came home for movie night. We watched Michael Clayton and it wasn't as good as I had anticipated. Still worth seeing, but I don't understand all the hype.

I finished reading a Twist of Lennon (loved it,) and began reading John, also by Cythia Lennon.

Sunday is always my sleepy day. Bob woke with the kids and took them to breakfast. Then he grabbed the dog and went to Pet Smart for food and other goodies. I slept until 10am and woke to silence. I brewed some coffee, read the paper and waited for the fam to come back home.
I have been battling a crippling headache for the past 2 days. Today I didn't even leave the house or get out of my jammies for that matter.
A new week approaches, another snow storm is heading our way. Let's pray it's the last one for the year!

MY SWEET BOY

2008-02-17T16:24:00.001-05:00

I look forward to Friday's when Grace has dance class. That is my time with Denny and Denny alone. Just the two of us sharing an hour together. We never do anything too exciting, usually just run some errands. But I love the time and I know he does also. Last Friday him and I went to Burlington's to do some shopping. He sat in the cart and while we were walking around the store he was staring and smiling at me. Every few minutes he would say, "I love you mommy." He is such a sweet little boy. I don't want him to grow up anymore than he already has. He's my baby boy.

Here's an example of his gentle soul. If Archie is on top of Denny, and Denny is screaming for him to get off, the second the dog leaves him alone, D says, "Thank you Archie." If Denny accidenly hurts Grace, he will run up to her, kiss and hug her and say I'm sorry Grace, I love you." He will be the first to notice if someone is upset and he'll be there to offer a hug. This little dude warms my heart.